Tess!!! Sorry but your recent examples are actually so normal and reasonable. But brains are evil and weird. I identify with this newsletter a lot. I "have" cancer. Actually I don't - they took it all out in September, my hair is growing back, my immunotherapy treatment is pretty easy. But I still cannot operate in the past tense. idk maybe I need to go to therapy. Anyway - I love reading what you have to say and hope whatever career trajectory you end up on the universe still gets to hear your thoughts.
Hi I had a pretty life shattering event happen in Oct/nov and while I’m not sick, I definitely relate to the what is normal/when will I be normal again/what is my new normal thinking, and also feeling like I can never shut up about myself and my situation, which I will do now, but you’re not alone promise. 2024 was insanely brutal to all of the best people I know. Including u. And me
I once read a testimony from a woman who had lost a child, and felt afterwards, particularly in social settings, that it was like walking around with a spear through her chest that everyone could see. The loss, the trauma, *was* the spear. And the reality of hanging out with someone and NOT talking about or acknowledging the spear would be infinitely weirder than simply doing so. It’s too much a part of that person to not ignore it. So she talks about it, and it becomes part of her in a way that feels somewhat normal after a time. Invisible or not, the spears are there sometimes let’s talk about it!
I love reading your posts and so appreciate your transparency. Thank you for sharing your notes from Dr Keefer, very helpful to those of us with Crohn’s / chronic illness. I can’t wait to read next wk’s post! In meantime hope you enjoy all that salt and ice cream!
Tess!!! Sorry but your recent examples are actually so normal and reasonable. But brains are evil and weird. I identify with this newsletter a lot. I "have" cancer. Actually I don't - they took it all out in September, my hair is growing back, my immunotherapy treatment is pretty easy. But I still cannot operate in the past tense. idk maybe I need to go to therapy. Anyway - I love reading what you have to say and hope whatever career trajectory you end up on the universe still gets to hear your thoughts.
Hi I had a pretty life shattering event happen in Oct/nov and while I’m not sick, I definitely relate to the what is normal/when will I be normal again/what is my new normal thinking, and also feeling like I can never shut up about myself and my situation, which I will do now, but you’re not alone promise. 2024 was insanely brutal to all of the best people I know. Including u. And me
Another great column! Awaiting next weeks ".....and now I have Gout from all the salty meats" follow up!
Nothing you've said here about yourself makes me want to turn away-- You Are Lovable!!
Few (of us) can wear the
"Selfish Tiara" so cutely and with the style demanded. 👑😘😏
The shocking statement in this piece was your admittance of sneaking spoonfuls of ice cream,
and the effect it's having on your digestive system! 😱🫨😵
I once read a testimony from a woman who had lost a child, and felt afterwards, particularly in social settings, that it was like walking around with a spear through her chest that everyone could see. The loss, the trauma, *was* the spear. And the reality of hanging out with someone and NOT talking about or acknowledging the spear would be infinitely weirder than simply doing so. It’s too much a part of that person to not ignore it. So she talks about it, and it becomes part of her in a way that feels somewhat normal after a time. Invisible or not, the spears are there sometimes let’s talk about it!
I love reading your posts and so appreciate your transparency. Thank you for sharing your notes from Dr Keefer, very helpful to those of us with Crohn’s / chronic illness. I can’t wait to read next wk’s post! In meantime hope you enjoy all that salt and ice cream!